How to Deal with Toxic Negative People in your Life My Simple Fast effective 3 Step Strategy

How to Deal with Toxic Negative People in your Life My Simple Fast effective 3 Step Strategy

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How to Deal with Toxic Negative People in your Life
My Simple Fast effective 3 Step Strategy

Lessons I’ve learned on how to Deal with negative, toxic people in your life 🙏 Relationships 101 My Message for you is to Take your Power Back and shut it down. Good Luck and I Believe in you.

Do you Struggle with Having to Deal with Bullies that always try to tell you what to do?

Are you struggling to deal with those Negative Nellies in your life? Staying true to you and taking back your Power that is the key when Dealing with Negative Toxic People in your life.

Today I am going to share with you my Simple Fast effective 3 Step Strategy on How to Deal with Toxic Negative People in your Life.

Here is the Video


We don’t even realize it. We are surrounded by Negative Nellies everywhere all the time.

How to Deal with Negative Toxic People.

My Simple Fast, Effective Strategy includes these Steps:

Step #1 Take Your Power Back by Diffusing the Situation

Step #2 Shut It Down, Tell them that is a great idea. Maybe I’ll try that Next time.

Step #3 Stand up and Walk Away

Bonus tips: Say this Mantra to yourself

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Transcription of My How to Deal with Toxic Negative People in Your Life and Video.

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Hey today I just wanted to take a few minutes to talk with you about something

That’s basically How to deal with toxic or negative people.

  I find a lot of times that we deal with people whether it’s in the workplace whether it’s our friends whether its family, whether it’s someone you live with. Well, I just find that there’s a lot of negative, negative and toxic people all around us whether it’s somebody you work with, usually that’s a big one because you spend a lot of time with those people that you work with; forty hours a week or more.

 So do you have someone in your life that like antagonizes you?

Those are lost souls and those are the people that you know that are the passengers that, you know sometimes you don’t want them in your car but you put them in there.

 What they do is:

They tell you “oh don’t turn here” because maybe they don’t know how to turn that way.

Or maybe you know they tell you “don’t park there” maybe because they don’t know how to parallel park or you know go this way or you’re going too fast because maybe they don’t Drive fast .

They drive slow they’re in their own comfort zone and they’re trying to control you because of their own insecurities so what I mean by you know the lost souls that don’t know how To do something. Those are the ones that are the insecure ones that are trying to take you out of your own alignment so don’t let that happen. You should be true to who you are and tak your power back.

You know you should be true to who you are!

Take Back Your Power

How do you deal with somebody who’s always bullying you and telling you what to do it’s not easy and my suggestion is to say to them maybe you know,  you could be right,  you know why don’t you do it this way? Tell them, oh okay I’ll do that next time. Good idea

I know you sense the sarcasm in my voice, because it’s real it’s raw, it has  Happened to me, A lot!

 So for you I wanted to say… You know sometimes people stay in a relationship, they give the power away, and you know they’re afraid. What are you afraid of? Take your power back! Don’t give your power away to anyone.

You know action-reaction. You choose how you react to a situation and how you respond or

Not. You know responding or not responding is still your choice.

So Defuse The Situation

Diffuse the Situation when Dealing with a Negative Toxic Person

Tell that toxic negative person you know to take a hike!

No I’m kidding, especially if it’s your spouse you can’t really do that but you know what you can do?

You Can Shut it down!

And how you shut it down?

You tell them you could be right insert name here you know Close that energy leak that that is happening to you at that moment and listen to your Gut

.

I always tell my kids this you know if somebody says something to you and it Feels off, listen to that, listen to your tummy it’s talking to you and it’s your soul, it’s your gut and it’s telling you. You know that’s toxic. That’s off energy and you know what? Defuse it

Walk away. Always walk away from a bully.

Right? So the other thing I wanted to tell you is so toxic hostile aggressive

Physical (I was reading this the other day) negativity, bullying, manipulative, (that’s a good one)

Dis-engage them.

 And how do you do that?

Neutralize them in your mind. By saying to yourself this little mantra.

 I Know Who I am, I Know Who I am, and do not let them take you out of your alignment and steer you, or the car you’re in a different direction. Especially if you’re the driver!

I Know Who I am I know Who I Am

Say this to your self- I know WHO I AM , I KNOW WHO I AM repeatedly when dealing with Negative or Toxic people.

All right so don’t buy into it, don’t give them the power. Neutralize them.

Bring up your vibration.

It’s really hard to be the happy person all the time.

I usually am and I try to be. I Really do and negative toxic people, don’t like that.

Why?

Because negative attracts negative, and like attracts like.

So when somebody’s miserable, misery loves company. There’s that old cliché.

There’s so many of them you know what don’t fall

Into it just say it that’s a great Idea and shut it down and walk away from .The bully or you know perhaps say yeah You could be right you know maybe I’ll Make that next time yeah all right I’ll leave you with that I know a lot of people struggle with toxicity in their life.

 I’m one of them.

You know and it’s very… it’s like…you know How  you feel like you have to be on. You Know, oh my god I’m going here today I have to put on my you know put on the Vaseline

so I used to say this to actually a colleague of mine and she laughed. She’s right, I would tell her “ I have to go to bla Baba’s house”  and I didn’t really enjoy going there so…. and you know who

you are,  not bla bla bla but the person who I told this to. It was a colleague.

 So, I told her you know just visualize this, put on the Vaseline. That way when all of the BS flies it just slides off of you. You know?

 And it was kind of a great analogy because it was just to visualize this, lather it on and then  whatever, hits you just falls off. It just slides off and then you don’t have to

 Worry. It’s just my way of dealing with it.

So that’s my little video on How to Deal with Toxic Negative People in your Life.

I just wanted to put that out there, okay.

 Have a great day!

love y’all.

Testimonial of Kind words from a Friend that this may have helped.  I’ll let you decide.


“What you posted about a toxic person. Currently going thru this as we speak. 11 years I put into this person. Anyway, I can go on. But thank you for posting the stuff you do. I know I’m not the only person that goes thru this stuff.”

My Friend

“What you posted about a toxic person. Currently going thru this as we speak. 11 years I put into this person. Anyway, I can go on. But thank you for posting the stuff you do. I know I’m not the only person that goes thru this stuff.”

That my friends, is My Why for why I do this.  

Be Well.

Danielle@circleofwealth.ca

Focus on Bettering and Investing in Yourself.

Take my course on How to attract everything you want in your life.

Training

I have created an online course that will show you how to attract everything you want in your life. It is a simple video series, where I share some simple steps for you to take,and I provide my real life examples on how I have attracted  what I want into my life. The Good the bad and the wonderfully unbelievable experiences.  Here is the link:
Take my course on How to attract everything you want in your life.

Requirements

  • Willing to try a new way of thinking
  • Availability for 21 days at your own pace
  • Willing to try the simple tasks, instructions with a clear mindset.
  • Pick the one thing you are currently struggling with in your life that You would like to attract
  • FOCUS.

If you’re interested in the course, please check out my link here.

https://circleofwealth.teachable.com/

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